Having boundaries is healthy…

…until it isn’t.

Listen. NO one. And I mean, NO ONE. Can tell you what boundary is healthy for you. Not even a therapist.

Listen. NO one. And I mean, NO ONE. Can tell you when a boundary is unhealthy for you. Not even the ones that claim to most care about you and love you, that are just looking out for you.

Listen. NO one. And I mean, NO ONE. Has the answers for how you should meander from one boundary to another. NO one.

Also, no one in life ever made a boundary, changed one or have foregone having one because of thinking. Boundaries are primarily an emotional energy, not a pensive one. Are you at the mercy of your emotions and not even aware of it? Your emotions tied to the past may have more influence in your current quality of life than you would care to admit.

Your boundaries are healthy…until they aren’t.

I am curious to hear what you do with boundaries and how come you have them?

I would like to invite you to seriously consider joining my 2 day anonymous, immersive retreat if you:

-Find yourself triggered often by the actions and words of others
-Feel constant feelings of down, sadness and maybe suicide ideation
-Feel content with helping others and don’t do much for yourself
-Are extremely productive in terms of “getting shit done”
-Feel uncomfortable when others compliment you
-Regularly settle with the pace of life and tell yourself, “It is what it is.”
-Have resonated with apathy and anger on a daily basis for at least three months.

What if i told you there are 7 levels of energy and the first four levels all lead to burnout. And no matter how hard you try, you will stay where you feel, stay with those you have and in some cases continue to feel alone until you learn to tap into the levels 5-7. Imagine if you could summon feelings of joy and creativity without needing to change anything about your environment?

What if I told you there was a way to live life without boundaries and no matter what others say or do, you experience less anger, outbursts, withdraw, concern for others?

What if I told you you could still care about others, spend less time “fixing” others lives and actually feel great at living your life not worrying about taking care of others?

What if I told you there was a way to take care of yourself and you would feel an instant shift in your interactions with others?

Get a change of pace means I know you are burnt out — same thing, day in and day out, week in and week out, month in and month out, year in and year out.

Just because you become older DOES NOT MEANΒ you have to accept the way your world is perceived to be.

Just because you have gone through things in the pastΒ DOES NOT MEANΒ creating a new boundary is going to change anything.

Being burnt out is a sign that you are ready for a change of pace. If you deny this, that simply means you aren’t ready to leave your place of predictability, you are addicted to old beliefs of the way things worked and you would rather avoid getting to the core of your pain DUE TO FEAR.

This is a pattern called “playing it safe.” This is a life engagement style of surviving, not living.

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See what two human beings are saying about their time and financial investment in themselves through the emotionally healing conduit Ground For Clarity, LLC

Human being 1:

 

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Human Being 2:

“For a very long time, I have continued to live a life where I simply just exist. I have had dreams that have been broken, hopes that have been shattered, repeatedly.. it is as though in this World, you are not allowed to have hopes, dreams or live in it.
All we are opted to do is to survive, if not, exist and wait for your death to come by. But why wait, whats the worth of living a life so empty, so worthless. There isn’t anything to live for..
I have tried time and again to get to my dreams, to hold onto my hopes, to act on them, to have all the will it takes that could turn them into something real, and the World, has made sure, time and again, that I fail.
I was at my breaking point, none of the positive content that I see online would help, people i talk to could barely understand me as they would straight, head on put up a wall to prevent me from ending my life. There was nothing to live for and no one to really witness, just, one person, who could understand what i’m going through. No one to talk to.
I became numb, silent and sort of on a paralysed mode, unwilling to open up anymore and allowing all of myself to be consumed by thoughts, emotions and dreams of suicide as they are what would give me peace, nothing else.
That is until, I came across Grounds for Clarity, I came across Kim. And the content she had on, the messages she would share, talk about, spoke to me at a very deep level.
And when I began my journey with Kim, connecting with her even more, I have felt a transformation, with each passing day.. a huge transformation, an awakening..
That life, really is worth living for, that i matter, and I have value, and I can live up to my dreams, and there shouldn’t be anything stopping me, no drawbacks, no setbacks, just an unlimited me ready to take on the World.
I have never felt motivated, uplifted, happier with myself before than I have today. I am currently working towards achieving my dreams, living my life, prepared to take on any challenges and obstacles head on.
I feel equipped, mentally, emotionally and its all thanks to Grounds for Clarity. I would highly recommend anyone who feels depressed, suicidal or simply needs someone to talk to connect with Kim.
Forever grateful.

Cezane, Founder of Humanity Lives On.”

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pikjohnson@ucdavis.edu
I want this to be a safe space to share my goings-on while I dig deep into my journey of self-discovery. What brings me to my desire to share my journey? I wish to provide life-coaching services to others. I coach to help others uncover what it is that is holding them back from accomplishing what is dearest in their hearts, spirit and minds. I am currently a student at iPEC, Institute of Professional Excellence in coaching. I am determined to disseminate my coaching services to all those interested. While I coach, I also would like to share bits and pieces of what it is that I do as a life coach-to-be and inversely, what I do not do. I am an imagineer, at your service. That is the best way I can describe a life coach to you. As a life coach-to-be, I can teach you how to think outside the box, consider alternative perspectives and reflect on what influences your thoughts. If any of this sounds like something you are experiencing, what is stopping you from moving forward? A space to message me may be found on the middle menu option on my home page. I acknowledge, appreciate and embody gratitude for each and every one of you and the struggles which you endeavour each and every moment. No one is a stranger to adversity. We can all overcome adversity because of our combined diversity. Thank you for contributing your time into our growing and collective, worldly diversity. Endearingly yours, Kim

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