Consciousness and self-awareness

The more we think we know, the more we begin to realize we don’t.

The stronger our ego, there is a stronger likelihood we will react out of defense, anger, sadness and take things personally. The thing is, when someone has a strong ego, their blinders are up: they are not seeing the big picture.

We avoid seeing the bigger picture because we hang on for dear life to our previous thoughts, beliefs, assumptions and interpretations, generalizations of how to world works. Brain science authenticates we spend a majority of our time recycling preconceived notions. It is no wonder the world becomes stuck or suffering ensues…because we are resistant to looking at things another way.

There is a character in a book in my favorite book series. The series has changed my life and the insight I glean from the characters within its pages never ceases to amaze me and incite change in my own way I look at life. Sometimes my blinders are challenged.

More or less, the supporting character is whom the main character turns to in her greatest time of tunnel vision. In this particular visit, the supporting character instructs her pupil, if you will, that she is pushing too hard to find answers. When in fact, if she let up a little bit, she would notice something there she hadn’t noticed.

He uses a tactile example. There is a breeze of wind and it is blowing a curtain inwards, he instructs her to hold the curtain in her hand and proceeds to ask her if she can feel the pattern. He is blind.

She says that there is no pattern. To which he responded that she was pressing too hard. And as a matter of fact, once she released from pressing hard on the fabric, she felt the patterns. To amplify the pattern across her finger pads, she closed her eyes.

Universal wisdom is there if you are open to its wisdoms. If you aren’t open to it, then let go from trying to look so hard and learn to let go of your ego.

Not sure how?
Here is where the complaints, the accusations, placing the blame, and staying stuck,Β can be looked at in a completely new way, as it is you that has all the answers, not the world, for what is most in alignment for you.

Click here if you haven’t explored it already, to learn of an opportunity to live a life of less pressures and to enjoy the fabric of your unique design.Β 


Thank you for pursuing what it is you believe is best for you. Lead intuitively led lives.

Grounds For Clarity

I want this to be a safe space to share my goings-on while I dig deep into my journey of self-discovery. What brings me to my desire to share my journey? I wish to provide life-coaching services to others. I coach to help others uncover what it is that is holding them back from accomplishing what is dearest in their hearts, spirit and minds. I am currently a student at iPEC, Institute of Professional Excellence in coaching. I am determined to disseminate my coaching services to all those interested. While I coach, I also would like to share bits and pieces of what it is that I do as a life coach-to-be and inversely, what I do not do. I am an imagineer, at your service. That is the best way I can describe a life coach to you. As a life coach-to-be, I can teach you how to think outside the box, consider alternative perspectives and reflect on what influences your thoughts. If any of this sounds like something you are experiencing, what is stopping you from moving forward? A space to message me may be found on the middle menu option on my home page. I acknowledge, appreciate and embody gratitude for each and every one of you and the struggles which you endeavour each and every moment. No one is a stranger to adversity. We can all overcome adversity because of our combined diversity. Thank you for contributing your time into our growing and collective, worldly diversity. Endearingly yours, Kim

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